Getting the Best Out of Life

Why is it so easy to be around certain people while it feels stressful and uncomfortable being around others? I believe it's because we are constantly influencing one another by our thoughts and beliefs. When I'm in a place of judgment, then my loved one or partner picks up on this and mirrors it back to me by being judgmental. Then I feel judged and unappreciated, which makes me want to judge and so the vicious cycle continues. How do I expect to get the best out of my loved one when my focus is on judgment?

If I want to be loved unconditionally, then I have to love unconditionally. That's why some people are very good at getting the best out of someone because they only focus on loving and giving joy. People sense their intent to give love and joy and they mirror it back with similar experiences.

The same applies to my own personal experience. If I want to get the best out of myself, I have to love and accept myself as I am. Then I end up giving the best of myself.

Speaking of which, I've noticed that even technology mirrors how the universe works. In Google Mail, for instance, there is a programme called Adsense which attracts advertising that match the topics being discussed in a discussion thread. I've done an experiment where I've created a thread by sending myself blank emails with no subject and there have been no ads; or I have received invisible ads.

I've always dreamed of being in a relationship with someone who would love me unconditionally. I knew that this was possible right here on earth. Instead of going out looking for such a partner, I focused on learning how to love unconditionally. Guess what? I've now attracted someone who loves me unconditionally whom I can love unconditionally.

I believe the secret to getting the best out of life is to love, love and love.

Enocia

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