Love and Expectations

Is it possible to love without having expectations? No, as long as there is life there is expectation.

Let's take the sun as one example which is forever shining its rays indiscriminately on all things come day or night. And yet, the sun has an expectation to shine. That expectation has been built into its programme otherwise it would run out of energy.

I have many expectations. I have an expectation that I would wake up every morning and have a body that gets out of bed, walks to the bathroom, expect the toilet to carry my weight; water from the tap; etc.

I have an expectation to be true to myself, which means following my heart no matter what society believes. It's important for me to live by my own rules here and now. Part of being true to myself includes knowing that I don't have to wait to "die" or be "translate" into another realm to live a life of eternal happiness; I can be happy and in eternal joy right here and now, with a lot of help from my friends of Love and Light, whose purpose it is to make my dream of heaven on earth a tangible reality. By heaven I mean a consciousness of experiencing all the spiritual attributes of love, peace, joy, wisdom, abundance, freedom wholeness, etc right in form.

Part of my dream of heaven on earth includes being with the man of my dreams. I don't have to wait to "die" first before I can be with him, I can be with him right here and now. I know we resonate at a deep level; he loves me as passionately as I love him; his desire is to follow his heart in all things. I don't expect to experience a roller-coaster relationship with him. I expect our love to be on an even keel where every day is full of joy and love and peace. I also have an expectation that I do not want any children.

Since I was a child, I've always known I came into this reality with a partner. I've always known that we were going to meet and I was going to marry this man. Right now I love someone very deeply who I believe to be the man I dreamed of as a child. On the one hand, my love for him is unconditional. On the other hand I have my expectations and it's up to him to choose whether he wishes to share my expectations right here and now or not.

I believe Love/Spirit/God who is appearing as all realities has expectations for all of us to be happy and prosper in all ways.

I love having expectations. How else am I going to express my joy?

Enocia

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